Daily Connection
Start each day with a meditation and reflection from "The Real Connection" - daily readings to support your journey in recovery.
Read Today's Meditation →Essential Literature
The four SA approved books that form the foundation of our recovery program.
SA White Book
The foundational text of Sexaholics Anonymous - the crucial book to recovery in SA. Contains the program's principles, steps, and recovery stories. Note: At your first SA meeting, we will give you a white book.
Purchase White Book →Step Into Action
Essential for working the steps with your sponsor. This comprehensive workbook provides detailed guidance for working through each of the 12 steps in recovery.
Purchase Step Into Action →Alcoholics Anonymous (Big Book)
The original literature from AA that inspired the creation of SA. Contains the foundational 12-step program and recovery principles that form the basis of all 12-step fellowships.
Purchase Big Book →Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
The companion to the Big Book, providing deeper insight into each step and tradition. Essential reading for understanding the spiritual and practical aspects of the 12-step program.
Purchase Twelve & Twelve →The 12 Steps of SA
The foundation of our recovery program, adapted from Alcoholics Anonymous.
We admitted we were powerless over lust—that our lives had become unmanageable.
Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to sexaholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
Additional Support
Professional resources and tools to support your recovery journey.
Professional Help
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Everything AA App
Download the Everything AA App for a daily reflections, Big book and 12&12 pdfs and audiobooks, and a sobriety tracker:
Find a DSR Partner
DSR stands for daily sobriety renewal. Many of us find a friend in the program to be an accountability partner. We make contact with this person every morning and do a daily renewal to start our day. Here is an example of a daily renewal script which partners ask each other in turn. This practice is suggested in the White Book - First Aid (Pg 75) and (pgs 53-54) in Step Into Action.
Resources for Family & Partners
Support and information for those affected by a loved one's sexual addiction.
S-Anon Support Groups
Support groups for partners, families, and friends of those with sexual addiction.
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